Monday, January 14, 2008

i am going to be gone for a while. my father-in-law, paul, is in his last day's of his life. he has had lung cancer for a while and now it's the end. he has been more of a father to me than my own father so i am devastated. as are my husband and my 12 year old. the nurse came in today and said it could be any time. and i want to be available for my mother-in-law. don't think i have abandoned you. i will be back. if you are a praying person, please pray for my family and for my peggy my mother-in-law.

15 comments:

Crazymamaof6 said...

shoot! well my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time! you are fabulous to be there for both of them! so hard! {{hugs}}!

SuperCoolMom said...

I'll definitely be thinking of you and your family and praying for you all. It is so difficult to lose a loved one, my FIL died just about 4 years ago (he was 92 - not a typo, he just started his 3rd marriage late in life). It still seems like yesterday.

We'll miss you and still be here when you come back.

crystal said...

I'm so sorry, Kay. I'll be sending some prayers your way. This is going to be a rough time for you. (((hugs)))

Melissa said...

You and your family will be in my thoughts. Hang in there, Kay! (((hugs)))

Susie said...

Oh Kay, I am so sorry. I will pray for you and your family right now and everyday as you walk through this. (((hugs))) to you and take care. I'm here for you.

Drewpy Drew said...

So sorry. Lot of prayers coming your way.

Melek said...

:(

call me if you need to... or if big C wants to talk about it or anything.

love you sisser....

Betty said...

I often think of Paul and wonder how he's doing. I am so very sorry, Kay, to hear this sad news. Please know that my prayers are with Paul and with you and the rest of the family.

Love and Prayers,
Betty

Femme au Foyer said...

Oh my gosh, Kay! I am terribly sorry to hear this. You all will be in my prayers to night and my thoughts constantly. :(

Rob said...

Hello Kay, this is Robbie (formerly of crossroads) I somehow stumbled upon your blog (I'm not sure how) but anyway I was so sorry to read about your father-in-law. We will be praying for you and your family, please let us know if we can do anything for you.

Robbie & family

smithfam said...

Our prayers are with your family at this time! Take care, we will be here for you when you are back. :)

Spammon said...

Uffda, that bites...I got nothin.

kim said...

Oh Kay, sad news -- I will pray.

(((((((hugs)))))))))))))))

Rob said...

Wow, how bizarre. I was closer to my father-in-law than my father and he had emphysema.

I feel your pain and you have all of my sympathy. Be strong, cry hard. I will pray and cry for you and yours. (and I don’t care if that sounds sissy-ish)

Susie said...

Hi Kay,
Just checking in and thinking about you. Prayers tonight for peace for your father-in-law and for you and your family.
This is brutal~hang in there.